Married Women At The Bar

Last Saturday I was out with a friend of mine (in town for Fencing) and we ran up to Atkins Park in Smyrna for a few beers and a nosh. After the shenanigans from last Saturday, I was a bit gun shy with the ladies and just decided to kick back and watch people and discuss fencing. As they often do, my eyes make a home in the bosoms of two blondes in the booth next to my bar stool. The area I was sitting in was very strategic. There are two rows of booths that come to gether at a right angle parallel to the bar - but where the corner should be is a cubbie hole area with two bar stools. This area is perfect for observing everyone in all the booths, the bar, and getting female foot traffic. This is also known as the sweet spot.

As I stare at the bosoms with blonde hair floating over them, my eyes travel further still to their ring fingers and notice that they are occupied. Unlike some of my friends, I never go after married women, it's bad karma and a bad idea. Yet I see these girls get up and start flirting with a lot of the guys at the bar. Some of the guys are married too, but one single guy goes all Roman hands on the married blonde with the exposed huge butterfly upper back tattoo. Thinking that was interesting, I looked around some more and noticed most of the girls throwing attention around were also married. The three or four single girls in the place were pretty demure - yet not pretty.

Things got even more interesting when one cute blonde MILF came up to me and complained about her husband flirting and dancing with anything with a rack. I mentioned I noticed, and she smiled and asked me what we should do about it. I was a bit scandalized by that comment, which probably explained why she wandered away. I don't know about her, but I come to Atkins Park because it is one of the few places in town that is reasonably quiet for a bar with a live band and lots of flirty women, and there is plenty of free parking. In other words, I probably wouldn't bring my girlfriend or wife there.

Maybe I am just different, but in any relationship I have been in that lasted more than three months it has been with women who aren't looking for the party scene when they are attached. It is about hanging out and watching movies, and forcing me to watch Friends reruns in exchange for sex and making me dinner. Bars are generally quiet and not meat markets and clubbing is for dancing and preheating the oven before sticking in the turkey. If I was at a club, and my girlfriend was willingly all over some guy - the relationship is over. Is that just me, and the rest of the men in Atlanta don't mind me getting a chubby while their girlfriends ride me like a Sybian?

I grew up in a small town, so maybe I don't know. What do normal young married couples do for fun in a metropolitan area?